Love Life Lesson on Free Spirit Type of Person

Do you know the problem with meeting with a free spirit person? especially when that person is the one you like and the one that by nature they both love each other? if one of them is a free spirit type of person, as we know people change. Let’s get the basic grasp here, that there’s nothing wrong with knowing that person is free spirit. But since we also know that people change, right now one of them express their feeling one another, “I love you” he or she respond back “I love you too”. One day can be like that and another day that person who called themselves a free spirit type of person can changed their mind and take away what they believe or things they are committed with already. So again this applied to a person who called themselves a free spirit or even a person who considered themselves conventional type of person (but this type of person usually small percentage can change up their mind compare to a person who love to call themselves as a free spirit). 

Let say you as a guy or a girl having a relationship or commitment relation with someone and that person called themselves as a free spirit, we might think that the person might be like to explore things and try new things. Again, there’s nothing wrong with that. You can always learn the positive things while you roaming together with that person. But what happened when that person bored at you, and all of sudden they said they have no clue what they are looking for and they think they have dual persona about themselves? When time flies by and you are still together, it is still a bless. But, can you imagine what that person can do when they felt bored and they have a principle “I don’t tell you what to do and don’t expect me to do what you told me?”, another word “Don’t tell me what to do”all you can do is just to understand, digest your own saliva and let it go. But hurts, doesn’t it? when someone said those word actually that person has the most expectation on you, and yet sometimes things like this happened without them telling at you and they expect you to know it. There are more events that can occured and I would like to explain here, but to avoid any confuse let’s just stay in this analogy. 

This is a simple understanding whenever two people commited to have relationship togethere there are no such thing as any statement come up from one person such as “Don’t tell me what to do” or vice versa. It is about team work whenever one said so the other person can said so, or whenever that kind of thing happened there should be any discussion together and solve as a grown up.  

Treating a person who called themselves as a free spirit sometimes can be pain in the ass. Even Though, you really love that person and trying your best to let go all your ego not to control her or him sometimes can also let you down in the long run because there is emotional abuse that occurred in your position because that person have a high expectation on you, even when they said they don’t have expectation on you. If this thing happen from the beginning or along the way, please have this discussion or my word for you, please ask yourself if you really happy with this situation. If not, cut him or her loose. Of course it will hurt, and storm will come to you on and off, on and off. Pray the best and the good thing for this person, let him or her go. Furthermore, you will learn the positive thing by having the experience with this type of person that’s all I can say. And this is coming from my experience and I have no regret knowing that person because I learn something, everything that happened to me either bad or good there always good lesson in that. And take that as positive and something that can teach you to be a better person in the long run. And don’t forget to tell to yourself you have done the best you can and you should be proud of yourself that you do the right thing. 

And when a storm hit you again, read this useful article: 

Ebates, another extra money for you

If you like to shop online, I would like to introduce to you Ebates. Basically, this company will give you cash back for every purchase you’ve made through the internet. Ebates working with many merchants. If you use Chrome as your default browser, you can go to the extension and try to install the plugin of Ebates. When you’re done install the Ebates and activate the plugin it will automatically notify you each online shop site that you’ve entered if there’s a cashback available with Ebates. So every time you purchase it will accumulate on Ebates and when you reach on a certain amount, you can send the cash back from Ebates to your PayPal account.

It’s pretty simple and at least give it a try. Please click the link below if you want to give it a try Ebates. Let me know what you think.

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Ebates Coupons and Cash Back

Arc’teryx Cold WX LEAF Quick Review

 

Non-ordinary Insulated Jacket. This jacket provides a better insulation than any other jacket can offer from my opinion. I owned Arc’teryx Alpha LT. It is really light and it’s good for cold weather like in California. The regular Arc’teryx Alpha LT is able to absorb cold weather from 60-50f. But it is a different story with Arc’teryx LEAF Cold WX Jacket. The jacket can absorb cold weather below 50f just fine.

 

2nd of all the jacket provides patches panel on left and right sleeve. I’m considering myself a patches collector and this is a plus point for Arc’teryx jacket to provide an insulated jacket with the patch panel on left and right of the sleeve. And one last thing why I chose this model, is because on the front of the jacket it still showing the Arc’teryx letter with the logo its own. I feel that one day that Arc’teryx will shift their idea to not having the Arc’teryx letter on the front of the jacket anymore and instead of a letter it will be replaced with its own Arc’teryx logo only. So might as well to have this model from now on or extra unit to put into a collection.

 

If you ask how warm this jacket can be? oh it is warm and can be really warm. It’s puffy, and when you wear it the jacket is ready to warm your body from the cold weather.

So I’m happy with this jacket and I’m going to use for cold weather purpose and it will be my next to go traveling jacket for cold weather destination.

I will provide more pictures below. Enjoy !!

 

 

And bonus:

Tom Hardy, preparation for Venom 2018 ( He is also wearing the same color and same model from Arc’teryx LEAF ):

Minion Patches V.2 Are Here, BANANA !!

Finally minion patches are here. 20 sets available worldwide and limited edition. First come, first serve. Once this sold out don’t think I’m going to release anymore. What I love about this patches, that the material. This is none like every company release their own patches. This is the V.2 Minion Patches that was been renewed from the V.1

 

So, 1 set contains 4 pcs of minion patches. For now I only provide the patches around US continental for now. Please email me for more info about the patches and prices.

 

V.2 Minion Patches

Nike Dunk Stussy SB

I got surprised with the shoes. It comes back to me again after 8 years ago I sold this hypebeast and now it’s back to my collection. First of all I have to say this dunk sb with the pink nike sb box was one of the finest collection I had back in the day. Can you imagine now people are into with things like yeezy? I’m not a fan with adidas and I’m also not a fan of Kanye. Say whatever you have to say but that’s my taste. For those who support the like of Nike, just do it !

Why I’m picking this color? first of all I love the combination color that the designer made, it’s light pink and combine with brown leather color. It doesn’t make you girly at all. Since these days many guys wearing pink such as pink iPhone, Tshirt and anything else. I definitely will rock my outfit with this Stussy.

Stussy was one of the great collection among the SB’s back in the day along with pigeon, what the dunk, dunk sb shanghai, dunk sb tiffany, etc. Those nike tongue cushion was absolutely astonishing.

I don’t want to talk much about it so I will let you see what I’m talking about.

私は靴で驚いた。私はこのhypebeastを売った8年前に再び私に戻ってきて、今私のコレクションに戻ってきました。まず第一に、このダンクsbとピンクのナイキsbボックスは、私が戻ってきた最高のコレクションの1つでした。あなたは今、人々がイージーのようなものを持っていると想像できますか?私はアディダスのファンではなく、私もカニエのファンではありません。何を言ってもいいが、それは私の好みだ。ナイキのようなものをサポートしている人のために、ちょうどそれをやってください!

なぜ私はこの色を選んでいますか?まずデザイナーが作ったコンビネーションカラー、ライトピンク、ブラウンレザーカラーが大好きです。それはあなたをガーリーにさせるわけではありません。最近、ピンクのiPhone、Tシャツなどのピンクの人がたくさんいます。私はこのStussyで私の衣装を間違いなく揺らすだろう。

ステューシーは、ハト、ダンク、ダンク、シー・ティファニー、ダン・ソン・ティファニーなどと一緒に、その日のSBの中でも偉大なコレクションのひとつだった。ナイキ・タング・クッションは絶対に驚くべきものだった。

私はそれについてたくさん話したくないので、私があなたが話していることを見せてくれるでしょう。

Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic

Thanks to the people who are able to provide these great pick up from DEFCON. Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic Edition. There are actually three different models cause personally I like Tropic color. The green color from this shoes really freshen your eyes. And good thing they ran out quickly, within 15 minutes stood on the line during the release and they’re gone.

The Line

 

As you can see, the line might be not that long like you wanted to get that silly yeezy. For me that shoes is just terrible. For real I don’t like that shoes since it has a thick sole on the bottom of the shoes that made you look like ridiculous and look like a clown.

But anyway we’re not here talking about yeezy, so let’s get back to the topic. I’m surprised this year DEFCON came up with three different model of vans sk8 High Notchback Pro. and surprisingly I got the jungle one.

Overall I like the shoes itself, it’s very comfortable and just reminded me back in the day where I’m still wearing my dunk sb. I think this will be my only collection for vans.

I have two and considering to sell the other one in Jungle color, 10.5 us. As you know 10.5 us can be consider as a golden size. it’s quite difficult to find this size in my opinion.

Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic

Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic

Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic

Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic

Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic

An usual milspec label inside of the shoes

Vans Defcon Jungle Tropic

Minion Patches V.2 Meaner, More Yellow than Your Banana

There always a room for minions. This was the finest one creation that was ever built. 20 sets available back in the day. This is the V.1 Sets

 

ミニオンのための部屋はいつもあります。 これは今までに造られた最高の創造物でした。 その日には20セットも利用可能です。 これはV.1セットです

 

V.1 Minion Sets

And now they coming and this time they’re meaner than before. They will do whatever it takes to protect the world with everything they’ve got. This is the V.2 Minion sets:

 

V.1ミニオンセット
そして今、彼らは来て、今度は、彼らは以前よりもより意味があります。 彼らは彼らが持っているすべてのもので世界を守るために必要なことは何でもします。 これはV.2ミニオンセットです:

 

V.2 Minion Sets

With these they will always be a good companion wherever you are. When you feel lonely or sad, they will be there for you. After all, we all love minions, don’t we?

V.2ミニオンセット
これらによって、あなたはどこにいても常に良い仲間になるでしょう。 あなたが孤独または悲しいと感じるとき、彼らはあなたのためにそこにいます。 結局のところ、私たちはすべてミニオンを愛していますね。

 

Songs That Will Calm Yourself

I never thought that I would like Brian Mcknight’s song till I heard this two songs especially the live version from “Just Me” album. And if you call yourself a love music type of person you must have known most of his song. I’ve started to listening to his song lately and I have to say his song always companied me while I’m stress and need time to chill. This is the first time for me when I listened to his song especially the one that I put the link below really made me understand the meaning of how to chill and relax. This song really made my day. I was so grateful that I got a chance to listened to this song while it was raining in my place, and plus this song was played in my room that just made my day.

So if you read this article and curious which song that I meant, please feel free to try to listen this song below and my advice, try to relax and make yourself comfortable before you listen to it. To make it better, even more, I hope it’s raining wherever you are while you’re listening to his song and will make your day.

Brian Mcknight : “Back at one”

Brian Mcknight : “Anytime”